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  • Old Chicago

    Old Chicago

    Today my unit at work celebrated kicking ass by going out to Old Chicago.  I brought Evy with me and my colleague Karen brought her hubs and son Jacob who just turned 1.  There were a bunch of people from work there but I didn’t take pictures of them like I probably should have.  Instead I was majorly focused on the cutie to my left.

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    Eh, so maybe I didn’t need pictures of them after all.  He made lots and lots signs for water.  Not sure if he is really thirsty or just wants to communicate but only has a couple of signs to work with.

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    Baby Jacob loves to eat.

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    You got something on your face, bro!

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    Then we watched 1 episode of Peep when we got home.  He was so excited when the show came on that he squealed and ran around and danced.  I will set up a hidden camera next time.  Yes, again with the leggings…

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    Then we ended the night with a nice bath.  He’s blowing you a kiss.  Goodnight everybody!

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    Oh, and here is something random for nurse friends.  I came across this link on Pinterest.  Maybe you are already aware of it, but I thought it was funny.  And I’m an “outsider.”  http://whatshouldwecallnursing.tumblr.com/

  • Happy Valentine’s Day

    Happy Valentine’s Day

    We didn’t have anything special in particular planned for today, but that’s how we roll around here.  In the morning, Evan got to wear his Handsome Devil shirt over to Nana and Papa’s:

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    In the evening we got to chill out at home, watching his favorite show Peep and the Big, Wide World.  Wearing a Peep shirt, pantsless, and  some legwarmers over some chunky little legs.  Growing up too fast:

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    If he could get closer he would:

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    And then he played with his most favorite thing at this moment, a big exercise ball.  He likes to roll it down his roller coaster:

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    The best part about Feb 14th this year is that we are not in the hospital.  In 2012, we spent nearly all of February hospitalized due to a massive chest infection that would unfortunately rear its ugly head again in 6 months.  My sweet little baby… you’ve been through so much but always with a smile on your face.  How time flies!  Happy Valentine’s Day Evan!  We love you so much!

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    Keeping the pantsless tradition alive! 😉

  • February 7th-14th is CHD Awareness Week

    February 7th-14th is CHD Awareness Week

    February 7th marked the start of Congenital Heart Defect Awareness Week. To help raise awareness, Mott Children’s Hospital requested those with mended hearts to participate in a video slideshow. I’m proud to say that not only is Evan in the video, he is the coverboy! The picture below is part of the email that is sent when anyone shares the video with a friend. You can see the entire email here and share it with all of your friends and family. 😉

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    Why is CHD awareness important?

    Congenital heart disease is the most common birth defect. It affects approximately 1.8 million families in the U.S. alone. Despite how common it is, there is a relatively small amount of funding for parent/patient education services, support, and research. Around 40,000 babies (1 in 100) are born each year with a CHD. The improvements in care and success rates for these children has been phenomenal over the last 15+ years but more work is needed. Early detection and continued research into long term care are critical as these patients reach adulthood. We are just now at a time where there are more adults living with CHD’s than children, a testament to the hard work, dedication, and technological improvements that have been made.

    From Evan to you, Happy Valentine’s Day!

     

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  • The Past Month or so and an Upcoming Surgery

    It has been over a month since our last post so we have a little catching up to do.

    Evan is walking very well now, he’s all over the place and into everything. We’re still working on getting him to stand up on his own without holding onto something for support. It’s crazy how quickly he started moving once he got started, within a couple weeks he went from not walking at all to walking the entire length of the house.

    Christmas was fun. Evan is not spoiled… at all. Can’t you tell?

     

    Who knew they made roller coasters for kids? Amazing! And Evan loves it…although you would not always know it from the look on his face.

    Evan’s Roller Coaster from William Wood on Vimeo.
    Evan found his g-tube extension in the bag and attempted to put it on by himself.

    Evan Tries from William Wood on Vimeo.

     

    We have been fighting with Evan’s g-tube site for a while. It leaks profusely and it looks angry, red and irritated. It’s not terrible, but it’s not what it should look like. We made an appointment to have it looked at by our pediatric surgery office at Bronson in Kalamazoo. The surgeon that put the tube in was in the office so he came and took a look at it. His assessment was that the tissue we were seeing was not granulation tissue but was instead gastric mucosa … in other words, the tissue we’re seeing on the outside is stomach tissue and not the normal tissue that occurs as the body tries to heal over the site. It’s hard to explain without drawing you a picture… there are several layers of different types of tissue between the outer layer of the skin and the inner layer of the stomach. The layers have compressed and essentially turned inside out, I guess. In any case it’s not really repairable and the site needs to be closed up and the g-tube placed somewhere else entirely. If you recall what happened during the first surgery you’ll understand that we do not want to have the surgery at Bronson. Not because we think they were negligent or anything like that but because we want Evan to be somewhere that deals with heart patients if something “spirals out of control.” We were unhappy with the level of care that we received from the consultations with GI at U of M so we started looking at other options.

    We chose Cincinnati Children’s hospital. They are about 5 hours away and have a phenomenal GI program (3rd in the nation) as well as heart program (8th in the nation). We had a consultation with them on January 3rd and were pretty happy with the doctors that we spoke with. Dr. Jason Frischer was very nice and helpful. While we were there we also talked to a GI specialist about Evan’s vomiting and a dietitian about converting Evan to a more appropriate diet for a 16 month old. We still have to schedule a consultation with cardiac anesthesiology and then the actual surgery. We’re hoping to have it done later this month. We’ll be in Cincinnati for a few days for the surgery and recovery.

     

  • Evan walks!

    Proud and happy does not even begin to cover the emotion that was felt in our house today as Evan took his first walk across the living room. Before today his only hands-free adventures lasted a few seconds and covered a foot or two. The video below is a series of 10 clips lasting about five and a half minutes, they were shot over a 45 minute period. You can see as Evan gets more and more comfortable, goes farther and farther and at the end even lets go of the couch on his own and heads towards Sarah. I continue to be in awe of his strength, resilience, and most of all, the joy and love he has for everything around him.

     

    Evan Walks from William Wood on Vimeo.

    I hear this is where the real fun begins. Oh goodie.  😉

  • Video: Evan is very excited to take a couple steps.

    Evan is getting closer and closer to walking. We’re not in any hurry, he gets into enough trouble as it is already but alas, our little boy is growing up. 🙂

    Evan had taken 3 really good steps on his own during our PT appointment yesterday so I pulled out my phone and shot the following video of him.

     

    Evan takes a few steps at PT from William Wood on Vimeo.

     

  • Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving

    Happy Thanksgiving from all of us here!  We couldn’t be more thankful for all of the love and support we’ve received.  We are so thankful for Evan’s success in battling his health issues.  I don’t know how we got so lucky to have such an awesome 16 month old.  Yikes!  Where does the time go???

    We had an appt at UofM on the 13th to do a pacemaker interrogation and see how things were going.  They changed a couple settings but that was it.  All we have to do it submit monthly transmissions and have a yearly checkup.  The doc (Dr. Bradley… we <3 him very much) was curious to see if the infection was gone and was considering doing a blood test but Evan has a cold and it isn’t worth putting him through anything.  I’m not sure they could find evidence of the infection from a blood draw anyway.

    We have some pictures from going on a walk, being silly on the couch, his latest doc appt, and practicing standing.

  • Magical Awesome Amazingness

    Magical Awesome Amazingness

    A co-worker had professional pictures taken of her newborn and had them in her office.  They would tease me with their adorableness every time I walked by.  I was very jealous.  Partly because we were never able to capture Evan like that when he was little and partly because now that we are home we can’t afford to have anything like that done.  Real professionals are expensive and it wasn’t something we could swing.

    I occasionally visited the photographer’s blog, TheGaupersBlog.com, just to follow along with their business.  I had just missed a contest for a free photo session but was so in awe of this photo shoot that I was crying at work, jealous even more that we couldn’t have pictures like that of Evan.  I reached out to the photographer, Holly, to tell her she is so amazingly talented and that I would be on the lookout for another contest opportunity and she did something truly giving and selfless – she offered us a free session.

    To say I was floored is an understatement.  I’m kind of an Eeyore at times and think that good doesn’t happen to me.  But she is just that – good and kind and pure-hearted.  And talented… a whole lot of ridiculously talented.  My dream is that someday I can be as good as her.   Gah!  Why can’t my brain function like that now!

    GAUPERphoto  I cannot recommend her enough.

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    Click here to visit the official gallery!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The Signature set is more finely edited and the Full set has more pictures.  Makes it impossible to pick out a favorite or even narrow it down to my favorite dozen.

     

  • Another Video… Lots of Laughter

    I love to hear Evan laugh and this video is full of laughter. It always brings a smile to my face.


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  • Evan Updates with Pictures and Video

     

    I realized when I sat down to write this post that we have not written much about Evan and how he has been doing since we were in the hospital almost 6 weeks ago. Sorry about that. There have not been a lot of developments but the ones we have had are been pretty good ones. Evan is now walking! Not completely on his own, but he stands and walks along walls, furniture, and he pushes toys and chairs to get where he wants to go. When he’s not walking he crawls all over the house. I like to put him in one end of the house, walk away from him and wait for him to come after me. Putting his favorite cartoon on TV is great for that, once he hears the theme music he puts it in high gear.

    When Evan is pushing his doggie, you can seen the pride in his face… It’s a truly wonderful thing to see him light up when he does something new. He is very motivated by praise, lots of clapping and yah’s. He will even stop what he’s doing and clap with us, sometimes releasing his grip on whatever he’s holding for a few seconds.

    We started going back to OT and PT each once a week soon after we got home and things have been going pretty well. The people there had not seen him in over two months so they were really surprised and pleased with how much progress he’s made despite being in the hospital… well progress in motor skills anyway. His oral aversion is still there and although it is better he is nowhere near being able to take any amount of food that you could call nutrition. Evan will open his mouth just the slightest bit and let you put something in but he pushes and spits most of it out. He doesn’t make faces, it doesn’t seem to be that he doesn’t like the taste, he actually comes back for more, he just doesn’t know what to do with it once it’s in his mouth I think. It’s a very slow process and we’re making very slow progress but it’s moving in the right direction so we cannot complain. We had physical therapy on Halloween so naturally I dressed Evan up in his costume.

     

    We didn’t go trick or treating but we did hand out lots of candy and Evan really liked seeing all the people come to the door. He was very interested when there was  a knock at the door and would crawl over to greet them. We have a great group of friends in the area and a bunch of us got together to celebrate Halloween. One 3 year old, two 2 year olds, and 6 kids under 2. They plan was to get all of them on the couch for  a group picture. Can you guess how well that turned out? Be sure to look at the pictures in the gallery at the bottom to see the progression of Evan’s meltdown.

    Evan’s hair is getting long… he could probably use a haricut but for now I am enjoying the crazy bed head hair when he wakes up from a nap.

    Here are a few videos and more pictures of Evan since we’ve been home. I hope you enjoy them as much as we do. 🙂


    Evan Screams from William Wood on Vimeo.

    Dancing Evan from William Wood on Vimeo.

    Evan Wants More Tossing from William Wood on Vimeo.