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  • YAYYYYYYY. First surgery done!

    Just got the news from the nurse practitioner. Who’s the happiest daddy in the world? That’s me! We were told that he’s off the heart and lung bypass machine and his heart is doing it all on it’s own. His little heart started right back up and is kicking hard… good boy! It will be an hour or so in the OR while they monitor his blood pressure since his blood gets thinned during the procedure. Then he will head up to the 5th floor where we will spend the next week or so in the pediatric cardiac intensive care unit (PCTU). It’s still going to be a couple hours or more until we get to see him. Once he gets up to the floor they need to hook him up to all their monitors, ventilator, and get his meds going. It’s going to be a couple days until we can hold him but just being able to see him and touch him will make mommy and daddy so much better. Dr. Hirsch will be stopping by the waiting area once she leaves surgery to definitively tell us how it all went. Words cannot possibly express how relieved I am or the gratitude that I have for Dr. Hirsch and the entire U of M team of doctors, nurses, and staff. I might even get a U of M shirt before we leave.

  • Quick update

    They have taken him back to the operating room. We probably won’t have any updates for at least a couple hours. Here with Sarah and I are my mom (Terri Seiwell), Sarah’s mom, dad, and sister (Nancee, Phil, and Kate Wood). Everyone here at U of M is amazing, we’re so happy that such an amazing hospital is so close to home. Here are a few pictures from this morning including the surgeon that will be fixing Evan’s heart today, Dr. Jennifer Hirsch.

    If nothing else updating the website keeps my mind off of what is going on…it’s very therapeutic.

  • Pre-Surgery

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    Just sitting with the little guy getting in our last cuddle time before his big day. He’s so amazingly peaceful this morning especially for not having been fed his least two meals. I’ll be posting here as we hear news throughout the day. Please send all your positive thoughts and prayers Evan’s way today.

  • Updates… video’s and pictures included

    Updates… video’s and pictures included

     

    Evan has been doing so well, we could not be happier about his progress. He’s gained about 6 ounces since birth and boy does he eat. Sarah’s milk came in and she’s been a machine. I checked the refrigerator in the ICU tonight before we left and there was enough in there for his next 5-6 feedings. She was very excited about it and so am I, much better for him than formula.

    The doctors are watching his intake and output very closely to make sure he’s getting the right amount of calories. We actually weigh each diaper after a changing and I can tell you that a Pampers size 1 diaper has a tare weight of 20 grams. His heaviest diaper, was over 120 grams! Guess that’s what happens when they give you meds to make you urinate. They regularly increase his total calories and he’s been taking it in stride. He’s up to feeding every 3 hours and taking 67mL (2 1/4 ounces). He takes the first 3/4 of it really, really fast and then he wants to take a nap and we have to coax him to eat the rest by bugging him. 🙂

    Tomorrow is our last day with him before the surgery. He’ll be fine, I know he will, but it’s really hard to think about what is going to happen to him without completely losing it. Despite everything that we’ve done to learn about and prepare for this, it’s still really, really hard. We’re having him blessed tomorrow afternoon and several family members will be there for it. Thursday morning they will wheel him down to a waiting area right outside the OR at about 8am. Sarah and I can be with him in that room right up until they wheel him into the OR. Surgery starts at about 8:30am and will last a 3-4 hours. We’ll go on a tour of the cardiac ICU and chew on our nails in the waiting room until he’s out. I’ve seen many pictures of other babies after they come out of the surgery, it’s not pretty and it’s going to be heart wrenching. We don’t know what life is going to be like for him immediately after the surgery, supposed to meet with the surgeon tomorrow and we’ll find out. How long will he be sedated? How long will he be on a ventilator, feeding tube, catheter, etc? What should we expect in general….???

    Enough of daddy being a downer…. here’s some pictures and video of the most handsome baby you’ve ever seen.

    OK, OK… I know daddy is mean and should let the little guy get his rest, but he’s sooooo cute when he’smoving around I had to mess with him a little bit. (I removed the audio in this one, the nurses were talking in the background and ruined it, but the video is still great)
    Do you have your tickets? from William Wood on Vimeo.

    So I am sitting in the chair feeding the little fella and I sit him up to burp him and what do find? Evan has the same issue as daddy, his pants never seem to cover everything they are supposed to.
    Evan is just like daddy. from William Wood on Vimeo.

  • Evan’s past couple days and surgery information.

    Evan’s past couple days and surgery information.

    Evan is doing better than anyone would have guessed that a ‘heart baby’ would be doing. Heart babies with conditions like Evan’s tend to have too much blood going to their lungs; this causes excess fluids to accumulate in their chest making breathing difficult. The breaths become shallow and fast causing a buildup of carbon dioxide in the body. Evan’s chest x-rays have been clear and his breathing has not become rapid enough for the doctor’s to worry. If this does happen then they will put him on lasix (water pill) to force the fluids out through his urine. They may also change his breathing air from ‘room air’ to something with lower oxygen (higher nitrogen) content. The air we breathe is about 21% oxygen and 78% nitrogen. Oxygen is a vasodilator, meaning that it causes veins to dilate or expand. Lowering the oxygen content in the breathing air will cause the veins to constrict and less blood will go to the lungs, which in his case would be a good thing. Reducing the flow of blood to the lungs is one of the goals of the first surgery, more on that later.

    Yesterday Evan decided that he didn’t like his feeding tube and gave it a good tug before I could grab his hand. He only managed to pull it out a couple inches and it easily went back in. He hated the tube and I think it was impacting our attempts at feeding him normally. Since he had taken his last couple bottles without issue, the nurse took out the tube and he’s been great ever since. This morning during rounds the doctors increased his food intake again. Sarah’s attempting to breast feed but we’re not quite there yet. We’re getting closer and closer at every feeding. He’s gone from 22 to 33 to 44mL of food (breast milk and formula) with the remainder of his calories coming from an IV.

    Evan got his first bath a couple days ago. Mom and Dad gave him a nice warm sponge bath in his bed. He did awesome, he wasn’t screaming or anything. We’ve barely heard him cry at all. I am sure that won’t last, but we’re enjoying it while it does. His skin is crazy dry so we’ve been liberally applying baby lotions to it to keep his skin from cracking and getting sore.

    Evan’s surgery is scheduled for the morning of Thursday July 28th. It should begin at about 8:30am and last 3-4 hours. The surgeon has not talked to us about exactly what is going to happen yet but we have talked to the cardiologists while they were making morning rounds. In general, two things are going to happen during this surgery, 1) Evan’s pulmonary artery (the one that sends oxygen poor blood to the lungs) will be severed from the lungs and combined with the aorta to provide larger and more consistent blood flow to the body. 2) A shunt will be put in place to send blood (in a smaller quantity) to the lungs.  The surgery will begin by putting Evan’s heart on a bypass machine. His heart will be stopped and the surgery will be underway. A nurse will provide us with regular updates during the surgery and we’ll get a tour of the cardiac ICU to help keep us occupied.

    Post-surgery Evan will go to cardiac intensive care for about a week. After this we may go back to the NICU we’re in now, or if he’s doing really well, we’ll go to the normal general care floor for another week or two. If all goes well then we’ll be going home about 3-4 weeks after surgery.

    If you would like to learn more about his condition and the surgeries you can read about it on our website here.

     

  • Day 2

    Day 2

    Evan is officially one and a half days old. He’s been doing what I imagine most babies do for the first few days, sleep. His blood sugar was bouncing all over the place but that has stabilized. We’re trying to get him to eat on his own so that he does not need the feeding tube but it’s proving difficult with the people in the NICU shoveling 30mL of food into him every 3hrs like it’s Thanksgiving dinner, it’s no wonder that he’s not hungry. The surgery is scheduled for next Thursday, until then he’ll be monitored in the NICU. Sarah has been discharged from the hospital but has one more night in a ‘nesting room.’ After that we will go back to the hotel here in Ann Arbor at least in theory. I doubt we’ll spend much time there, we just won’t have a room in the hospital.

    Here are several pictures from the last couple days…

  • Evan – Day 1 Video

    Evan Video

    Here are a few video clips of Evan. The first is right after birth while they were wrapping him up to go to the NICU. The second and third clips were taken in the NICU about 20 minutes after birth while they were checking him out and making imprints of his feet.

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  • He’s here and he’s amazing!

    He’s here and he’s amazing!

    I’ll post more details about the labor and such later, but for now…. He’s finally here!!! Evan Michael Wood was born at 5:39AM. He was 8 lbs 6.4 ounces and measured 21.5 inches long. Mom and baby are doing great. We’re waiting to get results from the echo-cardiogram and i’ll update more later.

     

     

  • Life in Ann Arbor…Day 2

     

    Sarah and I ‘moved’ to Ann Arbor yesterday to await the arrival of little Evan. We were planning on moving sooner but with zero pre-labor symptoms we decided to wait until yesterday. She has not had anything other than Braxton Hicks contractions so far but if you ask me, he looks like he’s getting lower.

    Our hotel… well…it’s not without it’s issues. 1) it could be cleaner, especially the bedding. I understand that typically it’s only the sheets that are washed between patrons but that doesn’t mean I want to see hair from other people when I pull back the blankets. 2) A car alarm kept me awake most of last night and despite calls to the desk, they could not do anything until the morning. Morning came and the issue was not resolved until after 5pm when the owner finally showed his face at the front desk despite the staff going door to door and me calling the police hoping that they would tow it. Other than those two things the hotel is just fine especially considering the deep hospital discount we’re getting. I don’t suspect we’ll be spending much time here once Evan is born anyway.

    We went to Trader Joe’s here in Ann Arbor… I didn’t know what to expect other than Birkenstock’s, granola, and Toyota Prius’. It didn’t disappoint. Oh, and I guess there were groceries too. We didn’t end up buying anything although I was pretty impressed by the store. I’ll go back when I have more time to look around. I had no idea they had their own brand. Their meats looked especially good. There’s a Whole Foods here too, have not been there yet, maybe tomorrow. 🙂

    Non-stress test appointment was Monday 7/18 at 9AM. This test is very similar to the ones we had at Bronson every week. The difference here was that Sarah did not have to push a button every time she felt him move and they had an ultrasound machine in the area where they also did a quick check of how much fluid is surrounding the baby. Evan was on the low end of the range that they like to see but that’s to be expected considering he’s now two days past his due date and we think, a pretty big boy. As he continues to grow he’s been a lot more quiet, not moving around nearly as much as he has in the past. Hopefully he’s growing tired of being cramped…

    After the appointment we went to a really cute baby store called Elephant Ears. I felt like the store had a ton more girl things than boys. Some of it was pretty expensive… I had no idea that such small amounts of cloth could cost so much. There was a $100 sleep sack. <shudder> We each bought a couple small things because you just can’t resist cute baby stuff. I know that Evan doesn’t need a pair of $40 Keen sandals like dads and that he’ll probably only wear them a few times, but one day… mark my words, he’ll have some, just not today. I mean come on, look how cute they are. Click

    Our next appointment is on Thursday, another non-stress test and a routine OB appointment. Depending on how things look on Thursday we might decide to take some action to move things along or we might just keep waiting. Either way, the plan right now is to let it happen spontaneously unless nothing has happened by next Sunday (July 24th). At that point they would induce labor if he’s still being stubborn.

    Keep us in your thoughts…We will let you know if anything changes.

  • Nursery explosion!?

     

    This is normal right? I mean he’s not going to spend much time in the nursery in the beginning anyway right? I guess my task between now and next Thursday is to clean this up mess. Orrrrrrr… Mom will be here next week and will be looking for something to do, hmmm. 😉