Last really long update….

Posted on October 25, 2011 by William 6 Comments

Ya don’t hold your breath… but I’m going to try if for no other reason than these loooong posts really suck to write.

It’s been two and a half weeks since the last post. I keep saying that i’ll make one more big post to get caught up and then make smaller posts thereafter because… 1) they take forever to write 2)make writing a post that much more time consuming and easier to put off and 3) people don’t want to spend more than 2 minutes reading a post anyway. So here goes…

Since the last post we’ve had:

2 Pediatrician appointments
Normal, nothing out of the ordinary to note.

2 Cardiologist appointments
We’re still getting ‘the weight talk’ from the cardiologist and for some reason we sometimes get this vibe from her that she’s annoyed with us as though it’s our fault that he’s not gaining weight. <shrug> maybe it is…maybe we’re not putting enough in his tube, maybe we’re moving him around too much after he eats and that doesn’t help his puking problems. I don’t know.

We’re doing much better, we’re pushing him harder than we did before. We’ve increased the amount of formula that we add to the breast milk, increased the amount that we give him per feeding, and we’re still getting up in the middle of the night to give him a sneak feeding while he sleeps. He seems to be puking less than before maybe 1-2 times instead of 2-3 times per day. At the last appointment he had gained 4 ounces from the previous week, an all time high since we’ve been home so that’s definitely a step in the right direction. Since he’s gained a little weight some of his meds were increased a little bit. At the last appointment Dr. Fountain-Dommer also added a new medication, Digoxin. After looking at the echo-cardiogram she added this medication to increase the force or distance that the heart contracts on each pump.  We’ve got an appointment with pediatric surgery next week to discuss and probably schedule G-tube surgery.

Lunch with LIMS people
LIMS stands for Laboratory Information Management System, it was a big project that I worked on implementing at work for over 2 years. Of course everyone hates it as they do all new things…they have good reasons and their old system had all kinds of custom things built in that were lost… anyway, it’s all Karen’s fault 😀 . We met at Angelo’s for an Evan meet and greet. Barb and Karen spent a majority of the lunch holding the little man. I think they are both in need of some grandchildren.  😉 Michelle, Paul, and Will also came to spend some time with us. Thanks all! It was great to see everyone again.

Lunch with the QOTT Quad

Three people in my group at work all had kids in July. Brooke had a girl, Jenny had two boys, and I was blessed with Evan. Our group Quality Operations Technology Transfer (QOTT) refers to the babies as The QOTT Quad. 🙂 The seven of us met at North 11 for a nice meet and greet. Evan was on his best behavior and slept through almost the  whole thing. It was good to see all the babies and talk to the Brooke and Jenny about how life has been over the last few months and express my jealousy for neither of them being back at work yet. From left to right is Cameren, Evan, Garrett, and Cody.

Early on Evaluation

In each state there is a program for infants and toddlers that have developmental delays and/or disabilities. In Michigan, this program is called Early On. When we were at the hosptial a social worker suggested that we have an evaluation just to see if Evan had any delays and if the program could do anything to help us. In general, children in the hospital lose a day of development for each day that they are there. On a Friday morning three women came walking up to the door and I thought, “uh…. wow, you have to be kidding me. This is serious business.” As it turns out one of their cars broke down about 5 minutes from our house and the third woman was the person that rescued them. The evaluation was very thorough and we were very impressed by the people that came. They looked at overall health, vision, hearing, fine motor, gross motor, cognitive thinking, communication, social emotional, and self-help. As we would expect due to his long hospital stay Evan showed that he was a little behind. The categories of concern were fine motor, gross motor, and cognitive thinking. This encompasses things like holding his head in symmetrical positions, bringing hands to midline, holding hands open or loosely fisted, playing with hands at midline, and reaching for things. They gave us some information and some things to try including baby massage techniques  which we have done a few times and he really seems to enjoy. We’ve already seen an improvement in his motor function since we’ve started focusing on getting him to bring his hands together and reach for things. They also set us up with an occupational therapist that can give us suggestions and help with getting him to feed. It was a great experience and I am glad that programs like this are available to people.

Trip to Ann Arbor
We went to Ann Arbor for a baby shower, the MI vs MI State football game, and to visit friends at Mott Children’s Hospital. Evan does great in the car, he spends nearly the whole time sleeping. This trip taught me something… don’t leave the house with an infant, especially one with medical needs and feeding problems. By the time we got to the hospital Evan was hungry and mom had to go pump. I fed him in the hallway, but as usual he didn’t take enough by mouth so I had to setup the feeding  tube on his stroller. We saw Mia Wilson for a little while and talked with her dad Bobby. If you’ve kept up with our website you probably remember Mia. Please keep her and her family in your thoughts and prayers. Little Mia has been at Mott since February and was very close to going home last week. Since then she has had a couple setbacks that have kept her in the hospital. She’s doing better but the doctor’s have not been able to trace the cause of the issues. We made it to the baby shower about an hour late, Evan was pretty good to start but got fussy and inconsolable pretty quick, clearly tired from all the action. I put him in an empty room in his bouncy seat, fed him, and he fell asleep. I went outside to play some bocce to be called back in after only a few minutes since baby boy projectile vomited all over the kitchen floor. Then to top it all off, we’re driving home and I realize that we forgot our camera and more importantly his heart medication in the refrigerator. Oh no. Very lucky for us our neighbor had not left yet and after a quick phone call they saved the day. Thanks Jason and Carin.

Milk Scan

This is a test where radioactive material is added to Evan’s milk and he’s continuously scanned for a long period of time (1 hour) to see how much reflux is present. After an hour we leave for an hour and then come back for one more 5-10 minute scan to check for any aspiration into the lungs.  This test was done on the morning of 10/19 and took all morning. Evan did pretty well, slept through most of the scan. After the initial hour we started to put him into the car seat and he threw up all over the floor. Then about 15 minutes later when I was on my way to get some much needed coffee he threw up again. Did I mention that I had given his meds right before he threw up? Ya…. that happened twice. I gave his meds 3 times that morning. They say that if he throws up within 15 minutes of giving the medication then you give it again. Bah…. poor guy. Results of the milk scan? NORMAL?! What the!? <sigh> ok, well I guess that’s good but we we’re hoping for something to point at his throwing up issues. On the great side, this probably means that he will not need the Nissen wrap that was suggested. We’ll find out for sure at the pediatric surgery appointment next week.

Sarah went back to work
Sarah went back on October 17th. That week  we had an appointment on Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Logistically, appointments are such a pain. I either have to work from home for a half day, lose an hour driving back and forth, or Sarah has to take time off of work. It doesn’t help that work is 20-25 minutes from work or that the pediatrician is 30 minutes from the house. Sarah is not very happy about being back at work, for obvious reasons. She misses Evan terribly throughout the day, being gone for 12 weeks and coming back is difficult, you feel like you’ve forgotten everything, and pumping at work?! Bleh. My mom is doing a great job and Evan has taken to her just awesome. Most of the time he takes more food by mouth for her than she does for us and he almost never pukes when my mom is taking care of him. Maybe she’s just lucky. Ya, let’s go with that.

3 Months old last Friday
 Yay!!! Oh baby boy, you’re growing up too fast already. What a great feeling it is to know that we’ve spent more time at home with him than we spent at the hospital.

Halloween Party

I know it’s a little early for a Halloween party, but people are busy the next couple weekends so we got some of the babies together for a party/costume contest. I told my friends to prepare themselves for a loss because there’s no way anyone can top Evan’s costume. Much smack talk happened and I refused to tell any of them what he was dressing up as. In the end our little dragon took home the win! Look at how cute he is. The costume is waaay to big for him, to the point that I am sure he’ll still fit into it next year which is good because I’ve never spent so much money on a costume for myself let alone a small baby. The pictures of the party are not very good, we’re going to take more of Evan in his costume and i’ll post them when we do.