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  • Feeling good and then… more fluids…

    Evan has been doing pretty good since we’ve come home.  We had an appointment last Friday to have his chest tube stitches removed and although he freaked out, he was fine in the end.

    Evan still receives 50% of his nutrition through an overnight tube feeding.  We were giving him formula made with Nutramagen but it really isn’t appropriate for toddlers.  While in-patient, we switched to Complet Pediatric and at first he didn’t tolerate it but then his body took to it and he tolerated it just fine.  It’s still a bunch of chemicals but I do think his body responds to it better.  Except… he started to not tolerate it at night and we aren’t exactly sure why.  His button balloon burst so we had to put in a new one.  Shortly after that he stopped tolerating it and his belly got very big and distended for a couple days.  At first, I was thinking that he might be retaining fluid with an effusion because he also wasn’t peeing a whole lot.  I didn’t see any signs of respiratory distress and he never complained of anything hurting.  After a couple days, it went away and he started peeing more.  Not sure if or how any of that is related.  We ultimately reduced his overnight feed volume and rate and he is back to tolerating it again.  Per the growth chart it says he is above average for weight but below average for height.  Dude has been around 33 lbs and 3′ tall for a long time. We’re trying to fatten this guy up so we need to get as many calories in him as possible!

    Yesterday we had our first cardio checkup.   His oxygenation is only 85%.  He was in the low 80s before surgery and I was hoping for the low 90s after surgery.  There is a chance his numbers will improve as his body continues to heal.  He’ll never be 100% oxygenated because he has a fenestration (the blood still mixes a little).  The doctor mentioned that if his numbers don’t improve in 6 months then maybe there is something to look into.  Or maybe this is just where he was at.  I was hoping to have a pink baby with no more blue lips or hands but I guess we’ll have to wait and see.

    We did an echo and Dr. Dommer agrees with UofM’s assessment that Evan still has mild to moderate decreased function.  She showed us on the echo where the vast majority of the heart showed some vigorous compression and squeezing and one area that just kind of hung out and sat there.  She said that it looks the same as before and that it is probably related to some localized event at that part of his heart – something that damaged that part and that we can’t seem to get to come back.  The new pacemaker electrode was placed pretty much at that site and that area just doesn’t want to squeeze that hard.  So, the best we can figure is that it isn’t getting worse but it won’t get better.  It’s just how he is.  We were on Digoxin to help with the squeeze and we stopped taking it at UofM and Dr. Dommer agrees to just stop using it.  We’re getting as good of function as we can at this point.

    She did also happen to see that there is some fluid in his pleural cavity.  That dang right lung still has an effusion that is a little too much right now.  He also has some fluid in his abdominal cavity (the term is ascites) I think located by his liver.  Dr. Dommer said that for Fontans, during the initial fluid re-balance that some osmotic pressure can cause some fluid to accumulate in the veins in the liver and that this isn’t uncommon but needs to be monitored.  This could also explain why his belly looked distended a few days ago… I wouldn’t be surprised at all if this is related and that they would have found more fluid if we came in when he was bloated.  I knew that wasn’t just a bunch of toots!  Because we mentioned his belly, Dr. Dommer sent us to get an abdominal x-ray just to make sure.  We made an appointment to come back next Wednesday and left cardio to get the x-ray.  Well, after looking at the x-ray, Dr. Dommer stated that he has a “pretty good” amount of fluid around his lungs and our appointment was changed to Monday morning.  We were told to just continue to monitor his breathing to make sure he isn’t under distress.  I’m not sure what will happen Monday – maybe adding another diuretic or  – god forbid – inserting another chest tube to drain it all out.  We know how well that happened last time…  So… that means we would be taking another trip to UofM.

    Through it all, he hasn’t really been in any pain, he’s been playing like crazy, and talking nonstop.  I hope we get some good news on Monday.

    I also want to take a moment to remember our friends Max and Zealen on their 3rd and 2nd angelversary.  We miss you and think of you often!  Our hearts and prayers are with your families always, and especially today.

    I also want to continue to ask for prayers for Brittney who is waiting for a new heart and Charlie who is the toughest 5-month old I’ve ever met.  You can visit Charlie’s facebook page here and you can support the family through t-shirts or  through Go Fund Me.

     

  • Probably the most you ever cared to learn about drainage

    DSC07697More of the same has been happening around here. Just basically waiting for Evan’s drainage to slow down to a level that they think is acceptable.  Evan always has a bit of a pleural effusion because he suffers from congestive heart failure and we manage it at home with diuretics.  Finding the balance of what is normal vs what is still stemming from surgery is tricky.  He was getting Lasix, Aldactone, and Diurel.  Evan got down to below his dry weight (what he weighed when he was admitted) and they thought they dried him out too much and so they removed the Diurel.  This also caused his chest tube drainage to increase, as he is draining fluid instead of peeing it off.  Now his weight is back up so they re-added the Diurel and hope to see his drainage go back down.

     

     

    His drainage levels are:

    9/11 = 460 mL
    9/12 = 460 mL
    9/13 = 110 mL
    9/14 = 78 mL
    9/15 = 68 mL
    9/16 = 84 mL
    9/17 = 85 mL (so far)

    Sometimes they don’t look at the output levels in terms of a day (midnight to midnight) and instead calculate based from 7am one day to 7am the following day.  When you look at those numbers, his drainage is more impressive.  It was the jump back up to 110 that made them add more diuretics:

    9/11-12 = 740 mL
    9/12-13 = 192 mL
    9/13-14 = 108 mL
    9/14-15 = 80 mL
    9/15-16 = 70 mL
    9/16-17 = 110 mL
    9/17-18 = 45 mL (so far)

    We are encouraged to get Evan out of bed and walking around to help squeeze out any pockets of fluid that have built up.  He has 2 chest tubes, one for each lung, and I was thinking that one wasn’t draining nearly as much as the other.  Today they removed his big box that both tubes drained into and split them into two.  We’ll now be able to tell if one lung is dry and potentially get that chest tube removed.  The fluid is looking clear and not milky, so we are feeling more and more confident it isn’t chyle.  The best way to tell is with a high-fat diet, so Evan has been enjoying his fair share of bacon lately.  Or has he says, “Mo macon pees.”

    Chest tubes are uncomfortable but honestly he manages it like a champ.  He doesn’t really complain about them hurting and when we are out playing he is all business.  It’s like he doesn’t even notice them in.  He is developing more anxiety, or maybe it is more pronounced when I am here.  I don’t know why his behavior is so different with me than his dad – I don’t think I really treat him different but he cries and whines a lot more when I am around.  Now even when they come to flush his IVs he wants me to hold his hand.  He doesn’t freak out like some kids, but it’s definitely getting worse the longer we stay here.

    Here are some photos from Sep 14 – 17.  Thank you again for your continued support!  We honestly couldn’t do it without all of you.

  • Pre-op appointments and heart cath

    Pre-op appointments and heart cath

    DSC07348Evan went back for his cath a little after 11.  I went back with him to the room to help keep him calm until the sedation kicked in.  Usually they give the kids Versed, but instead of making Evan sleepy it makes him energetic so they had to give him some sleepy gas.  They pulled out a little mask for Monka and Evan cried a little when he got his mask, but the medicine works so quickly that he really didn’t have time to fight it.

    They came and brought us to see him in recovery around 2:30 and he looked well except for being high as a kite.  He has an IV in his left hand so that hand is pretty useless as they have it taped to a board.  A bandage on his neck and groin – no big deal.

    The doctor gave us a nice breakdown of what they saw.  Here’s what we learned:

    1. Before the procedure, we were told that his heart function (based on the echo) was more depressed than they thought.  It looks like there is a region on his ventricle that isn’t squeezing as much as it should.  We’ve heard this before and addressed it with meds (mostly upped some Dig).  It’s still not the news that we want to hear.  After the cath, the doc said that his squeeze is better than expected from the echo, so he has some mild loss of function and his heart works better than they thought.  Fantastic news!

    2. They were slightly concerned about Evan’s coronary arteries and thought maybe this was the reason his squeeze wasn’t so strong in certain parts of his heart.  This wasn’t the case – Awesome news!

    3. Before the procedure we were told his leg veins were both occluded due to having so many access lines in the past.  This would make it impossible to do the cath through his leg vein, so they would need to find another pathway.  You don’t get the exact same type of info going through another pathway, so this was a bit of a bummer to hear.  Well, turns out his right leg vein is completely open, so they were able to put a line in his groin and get all the data they wanted.  Great!

    4. His pulmonary pressure (the pressure in his pulmonary arteries leading deoxygenated blood to the lungs) is 10 (I assume mmHg?).  The doc said that Hemi-Fontan kids are usually 8-12, so being 10 is perfect.  It is very important for the pressures and resistance to be low in the pulmonary artery.  A normal heart actively pumps blood to our lungs (via the right ventricle). Evan’s blood will passively go to his lungs to get oxygen since he lacks a working right ventricle. So if the pressure/resistance is high, it means the blood will not flow well/easily and you will have poor oxygenation.  That and a host of other issues.  But we don’t have to worry about that because Evan is a perfect candidate!

    5. Evan doesn’t appear to have any major collateral vessels, at least nothing they needed to take care of in the cath lab.  There are a couple we can keep an eye on, but nothing major.  Excellent!  Your body is amazing and when you have a blockage or narrowing of a vessel, your body can make collateral vessels to go around the blockage.  Sometimes these can be a problem and cause pressure or flow issues, and the docs need to get rid of them, like by putting coils into the collaterals to close them off.  But that isn’t the case for Evan.

    6. The one semi-bummer thing we learned is that his right pulmonary artery is about 10mm in diameter – which isn’t bummer news at all!  That’s actually great.  But his left pulmonary artery is only 6 mm in diameter.  There is no narrowing – it’s just smaller.  There is no pressure difference between the two sides, so that part is also great news.  It just means he uses a lot of his right lung when breathing and only about half of his left lung.  It will be something to watch out for.  But again, he doesn’t have any narrowing (stenosis) and there is no pressure issue, so that part is actually really good news!!

    Evan was admitted and we settled into our room at about 5:30. I will spend the night with him here at the hospital and tomorrow morning they will come by around 7:30AM to take him to the pre-op area and get him ready for surgery. It’s going to be a long day for all of us, we expect the surgery to take the better part of the day. We will try to keep everyone updated via Facebook and the website. Please keep Evan, the surgeons, and all of the staff in your thoughts and prayers.

     

    Here are some photos from our stay so far and some additional photos of this sweet boy enjoying the last days of summer.

     

    We did a more “formal” photo shoot of Evan.  These were some of the best.

  • T-minus 1 month

    T-minus 1 month

    20140731_091400In 1 month Evan will have his 3rd, and hopefully last, open heart surgery.  It’s been a long time coming but now that it is close it feels like it’s coming too fast.  I feel like I need more time with my little boy.  I think you always feel that way with a medically complex child… time is a blessing and a curse and you never know what side it is going to smack you with.  You try to be optimistic…. like really this is nothing compared to the Norwood (graphic).  But on the other hand it will be complicated.  There could always be setbacks.  Being an optimist and a realist ready to just cope with what life gives you is hard!   Here are some pictures of the day-to-day and Evan’s last cardio appointment at Bronson before surgery (which was really more of a social get-together than anything else because Evan is doing pretty awesome!)

     

    then and now 3 I tried to get my grumpy and moody 3 year old to take photos with me (oops sorry I forgot in 2013) and he wasn’t really having any of it.  Ha!  All I can say is…. do you think I’ll be strong enough to pick him up like that when he is 15?  He’ll be a foolish boy if he thinks I won’t try 😉

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  • More spring and summer photos :)

    More spring and summer photos 🙂

    DSCN8494_10A way-too-overdue photo update!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    20-April-2014: Easter!

     

    11-May-2014: Our first Tigers game together and it was on Mother’s Day!

     

    20-May-2014: Playing at Oshtemo park, a favorite place of ours.

     

    01-June-2014: First time mini golfing.  Only lasted about 1/2 way.  It was just too hot for the little guy.

     

    22-June-2014: Cousin Jacob gave Evan his old Jeep.  It is huge!  Evan doesn’t really fit in it or understand the concept of steering, but he will get it in no time I’m sure.

     

    23-June-2014: Evan had a dentist appointment and did awesome!  To celebrate, we went bowling for the first time.  He had recently been obsessed with bowling, so this was a dream come true.  He was super interested for about 8 frames.

     

    26-June-2014: We rented a pontoon and went fishing on Spring Lake.  Kind of crummy weather for the day but it was nice to relax!

     

    30-June-2014: Follow-up TECHS study evaluation at UofM.  Evan measures pretty average with just a little delay in gross motor, speech and eating, and self-care type activities.

     

    04-July-2014: Fireworks with friends

     

    Random photos from Mar-June 2014 🙂

  • Surgery is scheduled

    IMG_1471-001From the last post, we had a cardiology appointment that went really well but that ended with our doctor letting UofM know we are ready for the Fontan.  Ready is a funny concept. All that echos in my head is our surgeon saying how complicated it will be, how instead of booking the OR for a 1/2 day she thinks she will need a full day, how she told us she’s never really seen anything like Evan’s chest before… I get anxious just thinking about it.

    We have always been warned that spring is Fontan season, arriving just after cold and flu but just before the glory days of summer.  Except for us, it will be a Fontan Fall because Evan’s surgery is scheduled for September 11.

    They originally called and told us July 24 which gave me a bunch of ??? in my head.  I wasn’t expecting that at all.  They wanted to do pre-op stuff the day after his 3rd birthday.  I told them no, we aren’t spending another summer in the hospital, and especially after his birthday.  If it can’t be soon, have it in the fall.

    I am a little annoyed.  I wish we could just get it over with.  I hate having it looming over us.  I am happy we will have a pain-free summer to do whatever we want.  We’ve been purposely delaying some therapies and other things like potty training thinking he is going to be laid up soon.  Evidently we shouldn’t have listened to anyone and moved ahead with our plans. So now we are going to be aggressive with Evan and hopefully we’ll be able to make a lot of progress with him before September.  He is already turning into a little boy.  We can no longer call him Buddy or Bubba or even Evy.  He will correct us and say, “No, Evan.”  He is also extremely polite and will tell us Thank You (or as it sounds – deet doo) all the time.

    Anyway, enough with the talk.  Here’s some cuteness to end the post.

  • Lots of Pictures Part 5 of 5

    Ok so we are rounding the bend on this massive photo update…

    These pictures are all kinda random and are from June-ish to now.

     

    Eating & Therapy – Evan is still making progress.  He is really not offended by any tastes, just textures.  But he is improving and we are working on teaching him how to chew and swallow.  Pretty hard when you’ve never done it before in your life.

     

    Outside – We played outside and soaked in the sun as much as possible.

     

    Selfie – Whenever you are bored, what is there to do?  Let your little guy take photos of himself (what kiddo doesn’t love looking at themself?) and take lots and lots of photos.  When I have a bored Evan on my lab, that’s what I do.

     

    Silly boy – Here’s our goofy guy.

     

    Sleeping – No matter how old he is, I’ll never get tired of watching him sleep.

  • Lots of Pictures Part 4

    October and November 2013

     

    Oct 9 – Papa decided to sell his truck in favor for a more economical car.  Evan loves Papa’s truck and will miss it.  So he can remember, we made sure we took some pics with Evan in the truck before it was gone.  Somehow I think this boy will grow up and want a pick-up truck.

     

    Oct 12 – The place we go to for therapy had a fun day with a big bounce house, a fire truck, lots of crafts and games.  They even had a silent raffle.  We won 3 private swim lessons for Evan.  Our little Evy-fish can finally go bananas in a pool!

     

    Oct 19 – Cousin Jacob turned 9 so we went to his b-day party – enjoyed some hot dogs and then saw Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2 – Evan’s first movie.

     

    Oct 20 – Evan was helping me in the kitchen and being all-around cute

     

    Oct 26 – The Scherrers had a Halloween party at their house.  The theme was superheros.  Dada went as Hulk, Evan was Superman, and I went as Superman’s mom.  It was a really great time and I love our big get-togethers that happen too rarely now that we all have children.

     

    Oct 27 – Evan and I made Halloween cookies, a first for the little man.  He had a great time with the sprinkles.

     

    Oct 31 – Halloween!  We did a little trick-or-treating around the neighborhood because the weather was a bit crummy and Evan is still a little young.  Because he doesn’t eat, I bought a few little toys and dada went around to various neighbors and planted the toys with them.  So when Evan came around to trick or treat, they handed him a little toy instead of candy.  We don’t have many photos because I think I have more on video.  And yes, I cried… thankful that Ev is around for this experience and soaking it all in.

     

    Nov 3 – I wanted to take a more formal photoshoot of my little Superman…

     

    Nov 12 – Evan had a check-up at UofM regarding his pacemaker since his re-implantation surgery was over a year ago.  They were very happy with everything but had to change his pacemaker setting.  He was originally set to 80-150 bpm but they realized he goes above 150 and at that point his contractions are out of sync.  So they changed his upper limit to 230 bpm and essentially gave him more energy.  Although you can’t tell too much.  Even when he wasn’t paced and was at 55 bpm he still had loads of energy!

  • Lots of Pictures Part 3

    September 2013

     

    Sept 2 – Evan and I did an art  project in the driveway that doubled as therapy time 😉

     

    Sept 6 – We met up with The Hargers and Jacksons for Evan’s first football game.  He behaved great and the weather was so beautiful!

     

    Sept 8 – We live right by Gull Meadow Farms so dada took Ev and X over there to play around and burn off some energy.

     

    Sept 12 – Dada took Ev back to the park and we can officially say this summer he has mastered slides!

     

    Sept 14 – We went back to Gull Meadow Farms and met up with the McDonalds, Scherrers, and Jacksons.  The weather was great but on a nice September afternoon the place was packed!  Then we went to the Scherrer’s house and ordered some pizza.

     

    Sept 28 – Another beautiful Saturday so we took X to ArtPrize in Grand Rapids.  It was so crazy busy that I’m not sure I’d want to go back and experience that insanity again…

  • Lots of Pictures Part 2

    Here are a bunch of photos from August 2013

     

    August 8 – Evan had a neurology check up at UofM with Dr. Leiber.  Evan has no issues and “graduated” from following up with the doctor unless we feel it is necessary. So proud of my buddy and grateful he as been able to recover thus far.

     

    August 9 – Papa and Xander came over and I took some pictures of them being goofy.

     

    August 10 – Evan wanted to play outside with his water table and roller coaster

     

    August 11 – I wanted to do a photoshoot with Evan at the park.  We went to the baseball fields.  My little guy was pretty serious but I got some of my favorite pictures of him.

     

    August 15 – We went back to Cincinnati to get the g-tube switched out.  Finally got a mini button and get rid of having an extension constantly.  At first we were nervous that something was wrong with the site but it has healed nicely and works awesome.  Completely different experience than his first g-tube that was midline.

     

    August 16 – We went to Grand Haven with Papa and Xander.  First we stopped by the Imagination Station and then we went to the beach.  It was such a great day but the water was really, really cold.

     

    August 17 – We took the dogs to the park and ran around the baseball field again.

     

    August 24 – We went with the Scherrers and the Jacksons to John Ball Zoo in Grand Rapids.  I think that zoo is great and would recommend going to anyone.  I didn’t realize it was so hilly tho!  The next day we all met up for breakfast.

     

    August 31 – Evan’s first trip to the cottage!  I had very mixed emotions… I was so happy that Evan was able to go because I have such fond memories of going up north and I wanted Evan to experience that in his life and I was so grateful he was alive to feel the sand between his toes and go on his first boat ride.  Plus Great Grandma Jo was there and I’m not sure how many times we will be able to all go up there together.  I hope more, but I soaked it in like it was the only time.  Bliss!