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Feeding and cardiologist updates

10 days.  No post in 10 days means good news for Evan.  But no post in 10 days also means a bunch of well-intentioned individuals need their baby Evan fix.  I apologize for that.  The post delay is my fault.  Seems to be that having a baby makes you the busiest you have ever been.  It’s all I can do to keep up with a calendar for all of Evan’s events.  And it’s all we can do to keep up with photos and videos, so they are a little bit more scarce as we aren’t always as camera ready as we were before.

Since the last post Grandma Nancee (my mom) came down and spent a few days with us.  Unfortunately zero photographic evidence of this exists, but it was a lovely time.  She was very useful in helping us get organized, putting things away, cooking, cleaning, gardening, and of course watching after the little man.  I honestly don’t know how couples manage by themselves (I mean without extended family help).  One fortunate thing throughout all of this is that I am healed, am physically able, and we were able to learn a bit about Evan’s personality and his routine before coming home.  I can’t imagine having other kids at home and/or coming home with a 2 day old baby.

Dad had to go back to work starting Tuesday the 6th.  It stinks that all of his time was used up in the hospital but we are grateful that he was able to be there and not have to use vacation, which we are both saving for the second surgery.  He does have more of an opportunity to have a flexible work schedule and has been able to be around as much as he can, which is very helpful.  I love being able to be home with baby boy, even if it is tiring and feels unproductive at times.  Just relishing in those itty bitty baby moments makes my heart soar, so I can’t imagine how much Dad must think of coming home to snuggle with Evan.  I mean, who wouldn’t want to snuggle with this cutie pie?  Especially when he is zonked out in a milk coma.

We are still working on Evan’s feeds, which apparently is the thing you do with your heart baby.  We have ng tube feeding supplies but Evan has other plans and has pulled out his tube.  We decided to leave it out and see how he does on his own because we truly don’t know.  Doctor’s orders are to feed him 75ml (about 2.5 oz) every 3 hours, with a total of 600ml at the end of the day.  He is drinking unfortified breastmilk (mine tested between 24-30 cal/oz) and is doing OK but never really hitting goal.  He is closer to hitting it some days more than others.  We are concerned about his weight gain, or lack of it.  A visiting nurse is also coming to the house 1-2 times a week and he is weighed at this appointment along with cardiologist and pediatrician appointments so maybe because so many scales are being used it is not providing consistent and reliable data.  Maybe it is becoming a bit over-analyzed at this point.  At our cardiologist appointment on the 12th, we voiced our concern about feeding and weight and our doctor wants us to keep the tube out until our appointment next week and see how he does.  She feels the ng tube can do more long-term harm than good and she believes that if Evan truly needs assistance in getting his caloric intake, he should be fitted with a g tube.  I’m not too excited about that idea so hopefully Evan was listening and will kick up his feeding a bit.

The rest of the cardiologist appointment went just as planned.  The shunt looks great but she wants to keep an eye on it so we will have weekly cardiologist appointments. The echo on his heart showed that everything still looks like it should.  She looked over his meds and agreed at the amounts.  His heart med, captopril, is a compound medicine and there are only 2 pharmacies we can go to to get it refilled, so I’m glad we found that out.  Uneventful is good. 🙂  The next day we had the visiting nurse stop by and of course you think of more questions when you aren’t at the doctor’s office. I asked about his potassium levels because when we were in the hospital they gave him potassium pretty frequently because the diuretic furosemide that he is on can deplete it. She’s going to check with the cardiologist. I am also on the lookout for dehydration since he does not seem to have the same huge pee diapers that he was having after a dose of furosemide. Other than those very minor things, he is just wonderful.

Evan and I also tested out a moby wrap that a friend is letting us borrow.  I still need lots of practice with it but so far he really likes being in it.  It is a bit warmer than I had thought and the material is pretty stretchy and it is supposed to be that way but after wearing it for a bit it tends to stretch too far so I need to make it tighter.  Evan doesn’t appear to mind too much tho 🙂 We also gave Evan a bath in his new big boy tub.  Previously he had only gotten sponge baths so immersion in warm water was a new adventure for him.  He kept looking at us with a “what the heck are you people doing” expression.  No crying or fussing but plenty of big-eyed expressions.  Afterward, however, he gave us the signal to get him clothed and bundled up as quickly as possible.

 

Pretty Cute from William Wood on Vimeo.

Evan was sitting with mom and was a very happy little boy, until he got hiccups.

Comments

16 responses to “Feeding and cardiologist updates”

  1. Robin Avatar
    Robin

    Thanks for the updates and new pics….can’t wait to meet the little cutie pie!! You can’t help but smile with that video!

  2. Alica Avatar
    Alica

    I love that he is doing so much better!! (I bet mom and dad are pretty happy too!) He is a beautiful young boy . . . enjoy your wonderful time with him before you have to go back to the work routine. You’re such a wonderful momma!!

  3. Brandi Gandy Avatar

    I am so glad things are going well!

    Madison is just now starting to hit our goal of 600 cc a day and she is 4 1/2 months. So, don’t be too hard on yourself. I stress over her eating soooo much. I am trying to let that go. She only had a ng tube for 48 hours in the hospital (They took her off reflux meds and she literally would not swallow a single drop of milk. Needless to say we restarted meds and she restarted eating 🙂 ). She has gained weight, slowly but surely. Very slowly. At her appointment 2 weeks ago she was 11 lbs 3 oz. We were thrilled! But, I know they want her higher 🙂 We are a very strange in between spot – Her need to gain more weight doesn’t just yet require the ng tube, yet it is constantly in the background as an option. I am very curious when we have her Glenn in the next month or so what her hospital will say. Really want to avoid a feeding tube if possible.

    Anyway, all that to say hang in there. All heart parents feel the struggle of feedings I think. SOOOO different then my heart healthy 3 year old. I think that makes it really hard because my experience with him was so different. 600 is a big goal. Keep working toward it, but don’t get discouraged. He is doing great!

  4. Mom Avatar
    Mom

    I loved the video. He is so damn cute. The big smiles are wonderful. Makes me cry tears of joy. I cant wait to hold him again and with no tubes and wires. He is so special. Enjoy him, they grow up so fast. Before you know it he will be a teen and know EVERYTHING. Love ya

  5. Jenn Elenbaas Avatar
    Jenn Elenbaas

    Fantastic update! So glad things are going well. He still looks super-cute 🙂

  6. Kate Avatar
    Kate

    Great post, sissy! 🙂

  7. Miriam and Darryl Avatar
    Miriam and Darryl

    What a sweetheart!! I love that smile!! We can’t wait to see him again soon!!

  8. GG Jo Avatar
    GG Jo

    Thanks for the update.A great article.Love Evan’s smile and dimple.I keep him in my prayers everyday.He looks like he put on weight. What a beautiful child. Love and kisses

  9. jennifer Avatar
    jennifer

    Thanks so much for the update you are right we needed the Evan fix and the video was the best so cute Love and miss him so much want to hold him soon wish you would find and toy that would let us hold him via the computer

  10. Jenny Avatar

    Happy to hear that no news is good news! 🙂 Eating was what our world revolved around between Aly’s Norwood and Hemi-Fontan. We counted every.single.ounce. 24 hours a day for the whole 5 months. She was always always on the verge of needing to put her NG tube back in but she had such severe reflux, we thought it would do more harm than good. After her Hemi, a lot of the feeding pressure was gone and she ate better with her new energy. I wouldn’t let them push you too hard for a g-tube- from what I have seen and heard (and I am by no means a medical professional) the only time a g-tube is really REALLY needed is if the babies have a huge oral aversion and refuse to swallow much or anything (which definitely happens) but if Evan is taking a bottle then I would assume it’s just a matter of building up endurance. Aly only gained 3.5 pounds between her Norwood and her Hemi and she did great with it. I think my biggest piece of feeding advice would be sleep feeding. We used to sleep feed Aly a lot in between feeds. If she was sleeping good and sucking on her pacifier, we would switch it out for a bottle. Even if she just took a few swigs, it was a few more cc’s towards the daily goal. Thanks for updating!

  11. Grandma Nancee Avatar
    Grandma Nancee

    You are right – we need our Evan fix!!!
    Love reading and seeing the pics. He is so gorgeous and doing so well. xx00

  12. Wendy Avatar

    Don’t fret over the feedings! As we hate to hear, but is so true… all babies are different. I do know that it is much easier to eat without the NG tube! Think of how uncomfortable it is to have a hair in the back of your throat and imagine eating with something much larger back there. I’ve heard they do much better once the tube is out!

  13. Amy Young Avatar

    I am so glad he is doing so well. I stumbled upon your blog by accident and I really enjoy it. Not that it is, by any means, any of my business but I am with your friend about waiting on an ng tube. My son also had transposition, plus coarctation of the aorta and vsd and asd. He had a terrible time recovering and spent the first five months of his life in the CICU in Dallas, intubated and swollen beyond belief. We came home with a feeding tube and he took NOTHING by mouth. I thought we would have to get an g tube but our pediatrician was really against it. We came home in February taking nothing by mouth and fighting constantly with him pulling out the ng tube but by July he was full feeds by mouth and I am so glad we waited. I hear they are a LOT of trouble and a huge source of infection and that even if he never uses it they won’t take it out for upwards of a year or more. Anyway, just some advice. I know I wanted advice when I was home with a drug-addicted, ng tube sporting baby! LOL! So glad yall are doing well. God bless!!!

    1. William Avatar

      Amy, I am glad that you found our site and are enjoying it. It started out intended for friends and family but it’s beginning to grow into something more. I hope that it helps bring awareness to CHD’s and also provides a story of hope for families that are dealing with a CHD in their own lives. Thanks for your story and opinion on the G-tube. Unless Evan takes an unusual turn I don’t think that it’s going to be necessary since he is gaining weight, albeit slowly.

  14. jessica Avatar
    jessica

    aww, he is looking great! gladt hings are going well =)

  15. Jenny Avatar
    Jenny

    What a cutie! That’s wonderful that he’s doing so well at home.

    As he gets older you might want to check out this site http://childrenandbabiesnoteating.com/ it has great information about feeding (tube feeding, sleep feeding, etc.) and how to get help as they get older and you want them to eat regular foods. It really helped for my daughter.

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